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Struggles with sadness

By Mel and Ma, 21 Apr 2016

My Nan is really ill at the moment and I donā€™t really want to talk to anybody about it but itā€™s really upsetting and I keep getting angry at my friends and am struggling to do much of my schoolwork because I want to see her. People are starting to notice ā€“ What should I do?

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Playful Partners

By Mel and Ma, 21 Apr 2016

So I found out that my boyfriend of 8 months has been speaking or as he says ā€˜only flirtingā€™ with my best friend of 11 years. I know everyone says that teenage relationships are ā€˜destined for doomā€™ and people use them to help pass the time and get through secondary school, but the boy I was with was so different from all the others, and I guess it was this kind of naivety that makes it unbelievable. My and my best friend ended our friendship on a cold note and my ex-boyfriend is begging me to rethink my decision about leaving him. I really donā€™t know what to do. I donā€™t deserve to hurt anymore but I canā€™t trust him again.

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GCSE Stress

By Mel and Ma, 21 Apr 2016

Iā€™ve got my GCSEā€™s at the end of this year and I donā€™t know how everyone else has managed to do them! Thereā€™s so much to learn and all the exams are so important. How do I revise? When should I start? What do I do?

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Fractious Friendships

By Mel and Ma, 21 Apr 2016

Lately, itā€™s been really hard within my friendship group. Itā€™s just been one fight after another and itā€™s stupid because the majority of them are pointless. The dilemma for me is that I never know which side to take. Itā€™s really difficult when your best friends put you in situation where you have to choose which one to side with, and itā€™s unfair on me. What should I do?

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Fighting with Parents

By Mel and Ma, 21 Apr 2016

I recently had a massive fight with my parents. Iā€™ve never had so many mean things said to me in my life and Iā€™ve never said so many mean things in my life. The scrap made me re-evaluate who I am as a person and it seems to me that Iā€™m probably the worst kind. I broke up with my boyfriend because I realised how much I hold him back, limit his possibilities and influence sadness and arguments. I am crazy in love with him but thereā€™s no way that I can continue to hurt him and be okay with that at all, even if the hurt sprouts from jokes. Iā€™m an anchor to all of the people I am supposed to love, and Iā€™m going to have to let them go. What do I do?

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